What? No Presents?
Last year I blogged about having a “Buy Nothing Christmas“. (For clarification, we didn’t actually do this last year, but I blogged about it.) Well, times are tough this year, especially for a couple members of my family. So, we (my sister, brother, and I) decided to have a “Buy Nothing Christmas” among our families. This means that instead of buying gifts for my nieces, nephew, parents, and siblings, we’re going to get creative with our gift giving.
Initially, a few family members were struggling for ideas, so we came up with some suggestions:
- search for gifts on your local freecycle
- search for gifts among things you don’t use in your own house!
- make a gift (Note: We did agree we could spend money on supplies to make gifts.)
- give of your time
- re-gift an item you received from someone else but don’t need/want
- redeem credit card points for gift cards or other gifts
- ask friends and family for items sitting around their house that they want to get rid of
I’ve had a blast “shopping” for these gifts, and so have the others. My brother found a friend who had a bunch of “princess” stuff they wanted to get rid of – perfect for his 5-year-old niece who is so into princesses these days. Many of the items were brand-new! I was able to get a $50 gift card to Red Lobster simply be redeeming some credit card points. My sister-in-law is giving my girls manicures and pedicures (at home) — wow! (We’re exchanging over Thanksgiving since my brother and his family are visiting now and won’t be here at Christmas.) And I videotaped my girls reading children’s stories (like Goodnight Moon), which I then burned onto a DVD to give to their almost 1-year-old cousin (along with the books, which my girls have outgrown).
Now I do have to admit that at first my girls responded with, “What? No presents?” (What can I say, they are normal kids.) But after we talked about why we are doing this and what they might receive instead, they got pretty excited about the possibilities… me too!
P.S. Monica at MommyBrain is collecting ways to save money at Christmas. For more tips like this, check out her blog.
P.P.S. We’re not doing a total “buy nothing Christmas” — so far it’s just with my side of the family. But I’m hoping it’ll spread to the other side next year
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Recently, I’ve had lots of conversations about social media with my non-technology friends. Everything from the ins and outs of Facebook to the purpose of Twitter is being discussed over casuals dinners, at the kids’ soccer games, at the bus stop, and even in the grocery store. This tells me two things.



