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6 weeks post-PRK

20/20Now that I’m six weeks out, I can finally say “why didn’t I do this sooner?!”

Seriously, it was SOOO worth it! I had a physical last week and was told my left eye is 20/15!! and my right eye is 20/25!! I’m still healing, so my right eye will get a bit better before all is said and done.

I have no red eye or major dryness. And I’ve finally gotten to the point where I don’t try to take my contacts out every night (although I do stop and wonder a couple times each week). It is truly amazing.

So for anyone considering PRK surgery, I definitely recommend it. However, be sure to do your homework first, understand the lengthy recovery period, and plan accordingly. In the end, if your experience is anything like mine, you’ll LOVE your new eyes!

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Would the Last Honest Reporter Please Turn On the Lights?

By Orson Scott Card

Wendy’s Note: Orson Scott Card is a Democrat and a newspaper columnist, and in this opinion piece he takes on both while lamenting the current state of journalism. It’s the best article I have read in a long time, and for that reason I decided to post it here.

An open letter to the local daily paper — almost every local daily paper in America:

I remember reading All the President’s Men and thinking: That’s journalism.  You do what it takes to get the truth and you lay it before the public, because the public has a right to know.

This housing crisis didn’t come out of nowhere.  It was not a vague emanation of the evil Bush administration.

It was a direct result of the political decision, back in the late 1990s, to loosen the rules of lending so that home loans would be more accessible to poor people.  Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac were authorized to approve risky loans.

What is a risky loan?  It’s a loan that the recipient is likely not to be able to repay.

The goal of this rule change was to help the poor — which especially would help members of minority groups.  But how does it help these people to give them a loan that they can’t repay?  They get into a house, yes, but when they can’t make the payments, they lose the house — along with their credit rating.

They end up worse off than before.

This was completely foreseeable and in fact many people did foresee it.  One political party, in Congress and in the executive branch, tried repeatedly to tighten up the rules.  The other party blocked every such attempt and tried to loosen them.

Furthermore, Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae were making political contributions to the very members of Congress who were allowing them to make irresponsible loans.  (Though why quasi-federal agencies were allowed to do so baffles me.  It’s as if the Pentagon were allowed to contribute to the political campaigns of Congressmen who support increasing their budget.)

Isn’t there a story here?  Doesn’t journalism require that you who produce our daily paper tell the truth about who brought us to a position where the only way to keep confidence in our economy was a $700 billion bailout?  Aren’t you supposed to follow the money and see which politicians were benefiting personally from the deregulation of mortgage lending?

I have no doubt that if these facts had pointed to the Republican Party or to John McCain as the guilty parties, you would be treating it as a vast scandal.  “Housing-gate,” no doubt.  Or “Fannie-gate.”

Instead, it was Senator Christopher Dodd and Congressman Barney Frank, both Democrats, who denied that there were any problems, who refused Bush administration requests to set up a regulatory agency to watch over Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, and who were still pushing for these agencies to go even further in promoting sub-prime mortgage loans almost up to the minute they failed.

As Thomas Sowell points out in a TownHall.com essay entitled “Do Facts Matter?” ( http://snipurl.com/457townhall_com] ): “Alan Greenspan warned them four years ago.  So did the Chairman of the Council of Economic Advisers to the President.  So did Bush’s Secretary of the Treasury.”

These are facts.  This financial crisis was completely preventable.  The party that blocked any attempt to prevent it was … the Democratic Party.  The party that tried to prevent it was … the Republican Party.

Yet when Nancy Pelosi accused the Bush administration and Republican deregulation of causing the crisis, you in the press did not hold her to account for her lie.  Instead, you criticized Republicans who took offense at this lie and refused to vote for the bailout!

What?  It’s not the liar, but the victims of the lie who are to blame?

Now let’s follow the money … right to the presidential candidate who is the number-two recipient of campaign contributions from Fannie Mae.

And after Freddie Raines, the CEO of Fannie Mae who made $90 million while running it into the ground, was fired for his incompetence, one presidential candidate’s campaign actually consulted him for advice on housing.

If that presidential candidate had been John McCain, you would have called it a major scandal and we would be getting stories in your paper every day about how incompetent and corrupt he was.

But instead, that candidate was Barack Obama, and so you have buried this story, and when the McCain campaign dared to call Raines an “adviser” to the Obama campaign — because that campaign had sought his advice — you actually let Obama’s people get away with accusing McCain of lying, merely because Raines wasn’t listed as an official adviser to the Obama campaign.

You would never tolerate such weasely nit-picking from a Republican.

If you who produce our local daily paper actually had any principles, you would be pounding this story, because the prosperity of all Americans was put at risk by the foolish, short-sighted, politically selfish, and possibly corrupt actions of leading Democrats, including Obama.

If you who produce our local daily paper had any personal honor, you would find it unbearable to let the American people believe that somehow Republicans were to blame for this crisis.

There are precedents.  Even though President Bush and his administration never said that Iraq sponsored or was linked to 9/11, you could not stand the fact that Americans had that misapprehension — so you pounded us with the fact that there was no such link.  (Along the way, you created the false impression that Bush had lied to them and said that there was a connection.)

If you had any principles, then surely right now, when the American people are set to blame President Bush and John McCain for a crisis they tried to prevent, and are actually shifting to approve of Barack Obama because of a crisis he helped cause, you would be laboring at least as hard to correct that false impression.

Your job, as journalists, is to tell the truth.  That’s what you claim you do, when you accept people’s money to buy or subscribe to your paper.

But right now, you are consenting to or actively promoting a big fat lie — that the housing crisis should somehow be blamed on Bush, McCain, and the Republicans.  You have trained the American people to blame everything bad — even bad weather — on Bush, and they are responding as you have taught them to.

If you had any personal honor, each reporter and editor would be insisting on telling the truth — even if it hurts the election chances of your favorite candidate.

Because that’s what honorable people do.  Honest people tell the truth even when they don’t like the probable consequences.  That’s what honesty means .  That’s how trust is earned.

Barack Obama is just another politician, and not a very wise one.  He has revealed his ignorance and naivete time after time — and you have swept it under the rug, treated it as nothing.

Meanwhile, you have participated in the borking of Sarah Palin, reporting savage attacks on her for the pregnancy of her unmarried daughter — while you ignored the story of John Edwards’s own adultery for many months.

So I ask you now: Do you have any standards at all?  Do you even know what honesty means?

Is getting people to vote for Barack Obama so important that you will throw away everything that journalism is supposed to stand for?

You might want to remember the way the National Organization of Women threw away their integrity by supporting Bill Clinton despite his well-known pattern of sexual exploitation of powerless women.  Who listens to NOW anymore?  We know they stand for nothing; they have no principles.

That’s where you are right now.

It’s not too late.  You know that if the situation were reversed, and the truth would damage McCain and help Obama, you would be moving heaven and earth to get the true story out there.

If you want to redeem your honor, you will swallow hard and make a list of all the stories you would print if it were McCain who had been getting money from Fannie Mae, McCain whose campaign had consulted with its discredited former CEO, McCain who had voted against tightening its lending practices.

Then you will print them, even though every one of those true stories will point the finger of blame at the reckless Democratic Party, which put our nation’s prosperity at risk so they could feel good about helping the poor, and lay a fair share of the blame at Obama’s door.

You will also tell the truth about John McCain: that he tried, as a Senator, to do what it took to prevent this crisis.  You will tell the truth about President Bush: that his administration tried more than once to get Congress to regulate lending in a responsible way.

This was a Congress-caused crisis, beginning during the Clinton administration, with Democrats leading the way into the crisis and blocking every effort to get out of it in a timely fashion.

If you at our local daily newspaper continue to let Americans believe — and vote as if — President Bush and the Republicans caused the crisis, then you are joining in that lie.

If you do not tell the truth about the Democrats — including Barack Obama — and do so with the same energy you would use if the miscreants were Republicans — then you are not journalists by any standard.

You’re just the public relations machine of the Democratic Party, and it’s time you were all fired and real journalists brought in, so that we can actually have a news paper in our city.

This article first appeared in The Rhinoceros Times of Greensboro, North Carolina.

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2009 Family Mission Trip to Nicaragua

Last year our family traveled to Nicaragua to check out some of the sites and visit a few Christian mission projects.

One of those projects is led by the Buzbee family. The husband, Mike, is a warm and genuine southerner. He took us to the Managua city dump where his family started a school for kids who live there (yes, they live inside the city dump).
> Learn more about the Buzbee’s project.

Another mission project we visited was set up by Wyeth’s father, Peter. Over the past 10 years, Peter and several donors have built some humble bunk houses, a dining hall, and most recently a 4-bedroom guest house, all on the shore of Lake Nicaragua (abotu 2 hours south of Managua). Peter named the project Campo Alegría, which means Camp of Good Cheer. The camp was original used to run week-long “summer camps” for children of the dump families. The tremendous support that the dump families are now receiving from other organizations has led Peter to transition the project to serve children living in some of the many poor villages that surround the camp.
> Learn more about Peter’s project.

While in Nicaragua, we splurged a little… visiting some of the nicer local restaurants and even spending a night at an all-inclusive resort on the Pacific Ocean. At the resort, we met a family who subtly bragged how they were slowly visiting resorts in every South and Central American country. They really felt they were doing their children a huge favor by “exposing them to different cultures,” but they never left any of the resorts!
> See where we stayed.

We returned to the U.S. exhausted and inspired. We are now ready to return and would love to have other families join us. Perhaps you’d be interested? We have tentatively scheduled our first family trip from Baltimore to Nicaragua for June 24 – July 1, 2009. (If all goes well, we hope to run another trip the following summer, in 2010.)

For planning purposes, you can expect the trip to cost approximately $900-1000 per person (ages 2+). This includes your airfare, ground transportation in Nicaragua, all meals, accommodations, 2 nights at the all-inclusive hotel mentioned previously :-) , as well as a portion of the cost to operate a 3-day camp for 40 Nicaraguan children.

Note: Many of you helped us in the spring by sending school supplies to pass out in Nicaragua. This year we will be collecting medical & hygiene supplies (band-aids, antibiotic ointment, tweezers, toothbrushes, etc.).

We will have a planning meeting this winter, so please let us know if you would like to be involved. And if you can’t travel with us, we certain welcome your prayers!

P.S. You can see pictures and videos from our spring 2008 trip to Nicaragua in our Picasa album.

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Breast Cancer Awareness Month

Breast Cancer Awareness StampIn case all the pink packaging on store shelves hasn’t clued you in, October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Last October, I had the priviledge of being involved in a breast cancer awareness project put on by one of my clients. Previously, I’d never been one to support medical causes. It’s not that I’m opposed to research and finding cures, it’s just that no particular disease had really impacted me enough to push me to learn more.

That changed when I read about Lisa Hardiman, Co-Owner of Let’s Dish! in MD and VA. It was Lisa’s experience with breast cancer that caused Let’s Dish! to start their Pink Dish! Campaign in 2007. This was the first time I actually knew someone affected by this disease… someone I could identify with.
While creating the marketing materials and web site for the Pink Dish! Campaign, I got to read countless stories contributed by Lisa and other people who were affected by this disease. For the first time, I got a *real* glimpse into the lives of breast cancer survivors. Reading about women being diagnosed with breast cancer in their 30s caused me to do some research on my own. What I found surprised me. Using an online breast cancer risk calculator, I found I currently have a 15.7% chance of being diagnosed with breast cancer during my lifetime. Most studies show the average woman has a 1 in 8 chance of being diagnosed.
What does this mean? Count up your mom, sister(s), and enough friends to equal 8 women… and figure at least one of them will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime. Scary, isn’t it?

So what can we do?

  • Get educated about the risks and signs.
  • Raise funds for research.
  • Be proactive, especially if you have certain risk factors. (Read this story about a Gossip Girls producer who had a preventative mastectomy after her mom had breast cancer.)
  • Support those affected. The Red Devils is a non-profit supporting Marylanders affected by breast cancer. Also, Let’s Dish! has continued the Pink Dish! Campaign for 2008.

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19 Days Post-PRK = Better Vision

Well, last week the doctor told me to give it two more weeks. At the time, that seemed like an eternity, but only seven days later I’m already seeing a major difference. In fact, last Wednesday (which was two weeks post-op), I noticed I kept my good morning vision until lunch time. Then, on Thursday I kept it until around 3pm. Since then, I’ve had mostly good vision (20/40 or so) with some occasional down time. I hesitated to blog about this sooner, because I was afraid it wouldn’t last… but it has!

So I go back to the eye doctor one week from today. At that point, I will be on week four. Back before I had my vision corrected, a 4-6 week recovery time sounded long, but totally doable. In hindsight, I had no idea what it’d be like living with less-than-perfect vision (and no way to correct it) for 4-6 weeks.

Now that I am *over the hump*, I can finally sit back and relish my new eyes. Almost three weeks without contacts or glasses is still not enough to stop me from thinking I have to take out my contacts at night. I still marvel at waking up and seeing the clock. For someone who was 20/200 for the past 30+ years, even seeing at 20/40 or 20/50 without glasses or contacts is a miracle. What more can I say – it’s absolutely amazing!

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